A Message to Those Who Have Been Hurt by the Church

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Dear friends,
I’m sorry for the Christians who didn’t love you,
For the Christians who followed a Jesus who
Didn’t eat with sinners
Or shunned the ones who didn’t have it all together.

I’m sorry for the Christians
Who created an atmosphere of fear
Where you had to wear a mask or try to be someone you weren’t,
When deep inside,
You were filled with hurt.

I’m sorry for the Christians
Who didn’t know what grace was,
Who thought they had to convince you to join their side
With hate when the truth is only found in love.

I’m so sorry you were hurt
By those Christians–
those imperfect persons
Who failed to show you who God really is.

Dear friends,
I hope you find who Jesus really is;
A person who lavishes love on you
No matter what you did–
A love so genuine and beautiful that it doesn’t make sense.

I hope you discover that a life with Him
Is like living in an atmosphere of grace,
Where you don’t have to pretend to be anything but who you really are;
And when you show Him your hurt,
He can heal your scars.

I hope you rejoice
In the grace He pours out on you,
And find that the truth only comes
When you turn from the hate and walk in His love.

Dear friend,
I hope you find safety in God’s embrace,
And find the courage to embrace
Every imperfect person,
Including myself–
And that, together, we can learn to show the world
Who God really is.

 

“This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” – 1 John 4:9-11

 

 

God Meets Us in the Midst of Anxiety

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Sometimes I feel like I have to reach a certain spiritual mental state in order to experience God. I’m sure there’s people out there who can relate. The joy of the Lord should be our strength, the peace of God should guard our hearts, and the freedom of Christ should set us free.

Right?

But too often my anxiety holds me back from all this. From true, confident hope. From Him.

How can we dance in His presence when anxiety holds us in bondage? How can we follow God when we don’t feel Him?

It’s true that following God brings about joy, peace, and freedom, but these don’t come to us when we search for them. They don’t come to us when we try to make ourselves dance because we ought to.

They only come when we seek Jesus. When we contemplate Him in all His magnificence. When we open our hearts and let Him in to dine with us. When we truly, honestly enjoy Him, because He is worthy of our joy.

In the midst of anxiety, I often can’t fathom how to enjoy Jesus. I’m too worried about myself worrying too much.

And sometimes that’s okay. God doesn’t need us to enjoy Him. God doesn’t need us to be psychologically healthy. He is capable of meeting us right where we are at to simply be with us. To comfort us. To whisper gently to us reminders of His unfailing love.

He is capable of healing our minds.

When all you can think about is that one problem that keeps running over in your head, God whispers, “I’m here.”

He doesn’t shout it, He doesn’t force us out of our vicious cycle of anxiety, He doesn’t condemn us for our misery.

He holds us. He gives grace to our minds. He guides us to lay everything before Him and just rest. God is greater than any problem we have, so we can rest in Him with the assurance that He has everything under control.

“Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5:6-7

Notice how the verse before the “anxiety” verse tells us to humble ourselves. It takes humility to release control of whatever problem we have and trust that God is great enough to hold it in His hands and take care of it for us. And at the same time, during all of this He is gentle enough to hold us in His hands and take care of us.

Once we release control and find rest in our Lord, something beautiful happens.
Peace. Freedom. Joy.

You soon find yourself dancing in His presence!

It’s amazing when you realize you really are not the one in control. He is. His plan is perfect. His mercies our new every morning. His love is better than life (Psalm 63:3).
Jesus is risen from the dead, alive and active inside of us to this very day, with victory over death and power over sin!

Take His words to heart. Enjoy Jesus, not because you have to, but because He heals you. He gives grace to your mind. And He always meets you right where you’re at, not where you wish you’d be.

This is a (kinda groovy) hopeful song that helps me “stay steady” in the Lord instead of letting anxiety get to me!

Have a blessed week, and peace be with you! ❤

The Gospel Explained to a Child

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This is my attempt at nailing down the truth as simply as possible so a kid can understand! I wrote this awhile ago actually, and then I forgot about it. It gets a little graphic when I bring up the gun, lol, but the gospel can’t really be explained without mentioning a little bit about sacrifice. I hope you enjoy, and feel free to use any of this to explain it to kids you know!

Do you know who Jesus is? Jesus is my friend, and He loves me even more than my friends, my siblings, or even my mom and dad could ever love me. People sometimes don’t understand how he could be anybody’s friend, let alone how he could love us more than anyone else in the world. A lot of times I don’t understand this either.

Well, what could a best friend do to prove his love for you? Give you a box of chocolates? Give you a hug? Listen to you when you’re upset about your dog chewing up your doll?

I don’t know about you, but I think that choosing to die in your friend’s place is the greatest way to show your friend love. Most of the time neither you or your friend’s life is at risk. But imagine if you and your friend fought in a battle. You see a man point a gun at your friend, but your friend doesn’t see. You love your friend more than yourself, so you jump in the way, blocking the bullet from shooting your friend. You just died in your friend’s place.

Imagine if someone did that for you.

Well, someone did do that for you! Jesus did. Your sin made the guns want to fire at you, but Jesus took your place. He ran in front of you and got shot instead of you. Because He loved you. Because He’s the greatest friend of all.

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” – John 15:13

Why did Jesus choose you to be his best friend, when he is the Lord of the whole world? We don’t even deserve to look at his face. But he loves us too much to treat us like dust under his feet. God wanted to make us perfect and beautiful just like His son Jesus. So after Jesus died in our place, He came back to life like a caterpillar changing in its cocoon and coming out of a chrysalis as a butterfly.

And now the same can happen to us. We can become perfect and beautiful butterflies just like Jesus.

But not all by ourselves. We can be butterflies not because we stretched and struggled to get wings, but because we sat still, trusting God to wrap us up and change us into flying beauties. We can fly freely all around, not because of any good things we’ve done, but because Jesus laid down his life for us.

He decided that He would rather die than to see us die. And because He is God, He came back to life so we could also come alive inside our hearts!

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

So how do we become these amazing butterflies? First we have to admit to God that we have done bad things that He doesn’t like, and say something like, “God, I need you. I need you so much. Please change me and give me wings.” Or maybe nothing like that at all. Use your own words. There are different languages even within languages, and God understands them all. What matters is that we believe in Him and open our hearts to let Him inside of us.

Jesus is our best friend forever. By laying down his life for us, He gives us a chance to win over the bad things that we want to do. He gives us a chance to love Him instead of the bad choices. We can’t forever say “no” to the bad things without God getting inside our hearts. We can say “no” some of the time, but we will end up failing if we’re just trying to be strong all by ourselves.

From the beginning of time, God has been trying to tell us that we need Him. God has given us the greatest friend, Jesus, who offers us a life that never ends. It just goes on and on forever.

We can’t keep on doing the right things without loving Jesus. And we can’t love Him without telling Him, “I’m sorry for doing bad things. Please give me a new life in You, Jesus. Amen.”

God is strong enough to help us out of our chrysalis. Sometimes I feel too weak to do the right thing, or I go my own way, but Jesus is patient with us and reminds us the truth before we get too lost. Jesus died for me, so I don’t have to worry about not being good enough for God. I’m not perfect, but He is, and He lives in me. Jesus helps me out of my chrysalis into the open air of His grace. Every time I get my thoughts on what He can do, He sets me free. And believe me, He can set you free, too.

“Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” – John 8:32